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“Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Do not bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.” ― William Faulkner I am a woman striving every day to be a better version of the woman I was the day before. Nobody is perfect in life and neither am I. But I do believe in myself in every way and above all have faith in almighty. There is no royal road to anything. One thing at a time, all things in succession.That which grows fast, withers as rapidly.That which grows slowly, endures!! This is on going journey, until you take the last breath..... So thought why not write down the chapters of my own journey....

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Every women feels the same...be it Us,I,U or Mom...


Something’s hurt something’s just kills you....again it’s just the matter of emotions and feelings...writing down today and now.. i am again here with all my emotions and feelings. Eyes filled with tears and so many questions on my mind....just in to related why we women.... ??!!! Why god has given such a soft heart and yet such a strong one to women with full of life.. power to bear every pain and still smile...:( :'( ... Why us.. why we are born to sacrifice from the very day we are born.. first growing up as child for her own family.. where she does everything for her mom dad..bro ..sis.. and does her best to keep the balance and then she flies away to a new house new family with new hopes and expectations... with new emotions.... and with all her love to keep a balance again..
After getting married to her man-- whom she loves like anything....everyone else is secondarily for her even her family...but is it really like this...............??!! 
She shares everything with him,her tears, emotions ,love, happiness, special moments... and expects in return only love and respect....but its never the same.. she has to bear the hardness of him... yet knowing that he loves her.. she has to accept this that he can never express his love... she is forced to believe and accept this that the way she expects the flow of everything.. it wont be that way...... 
she struggles everyday to make it best out of everything ..and she does and she has done it in every-way taking caring of him,his family.. all emotions and feelings... responsibilities towards children...caring.. everything but has she ever got back the same care..?!. same response...same expression of love from him............. never.. she still cries and still waits for those special moments of caring and loving and those few words....from him......of appreciations. Of love..of praise... knowing the fact that he will never change he is still the same hard-core.. 
The strength of a woman can carry the weight of the world,all the secrets,laughs, pains,happiness,tears .. everything.. and still you will be seeing her smiling always, not uttering a single world... she just want u to smile..In return she needs nothing more than his Love ♥ and respect..... just these two things............sometimes they are received as a gift of god and sometimes she is born to keep on waiting..............Women might get everything she wants..money clothes.. whatever she wants but if she has never got the that amount of love from him she will never be happy and she will never be content.........
Because at the end of the day..or end of her life..........HE IS ABOVE OF EVERYTHING IN HER LIFE...and these words mean a lot for a WOMEN,BELIEVE IT OR NOT EVERY WOMEN KNOWS THIS AND FEEL THIS............!!!!